The Sisterhood Scoop

September

Sisterhood wishes our NHBZ Family a good and sweet New Year and gemar chatimah tovah (a good, final sealing in the Book of Life).

SAVE THE DATE – THURS., NOV. 1ST

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JFedStL Women’s Philanthropy presents:
“L’Chaim! Women Changing the World”
with Former Miss World Linor Abargil
The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis

The Yom Kippur Sandwich

Most of us are familiar with the advice to offer a rebuke in the form of a “criticism sandwich”–-first a compliment, then disapproval, followed by more praise. We can also apply this idea in advance of Yom Kippur, as suggested in an aish.org article by Ahava Spillman, “The Yom Kippur Sandwich,” where she explains…

Before Yom Kippur begins, write down 10 things for which you are grateful. When we express appreciation, it actually boosts our physical and emotional wellbeing, changing our perception from negative to positive. Try it! Give thanks for the people you love and those who love you, for your work and colleagues, for happy times as well as challenging ones, for your health, your house, the charity you can give, etc. That’s the first slice of your Yom Kippur sandwich.

Now comes the second slice—the stuff you’re asking of G-d. Write down 10 things you need for yourself and others—your niece who wants a baby, your sister who requires a miraculous recovery, your friend who needs to find a job, or your buddy who’s depressed. Share the blessings this year. Take a little time and consider those you know who could use a helping hand.

So what is the “meat” of the Yom Kippur special? The resolutions, the things we commit to change. Unlike typical New Year’s resolutions, which often concern weight, fitness or eating habits, our Yom Kippur resolutions are spiritual in nature. Cardiovascular workouts keep the heart pumping, but charity given with gusto will certainly increase your blood flow. Weightlifting may widen your biceps, but using those arms to embrace your children or a sick friend will undoubtedly raise your self-esteem. And stretching, considered imperative to any conditioning regimen, can certainly be interpreted to mean expanding your limits to include another mitzvah. So go ahead, write down 10 things you commit to do differently this coming year.

This Yom Kippur sandwich will make your holiday a truly holy day without transgressing any laws. So sometime mid-afternoon when you’re feeling a bit peckish, this “spiritual sandwich” is sure to infuse your Yom Kippur with deeper meaning.

Thanks to all who helped support Sisterhood’s New Year Greetings fundraiser by wishing L‘Shana Tova to all in our NHBZ family.

Book Club News

Next Book Selection:
Home in the Morning
by Mary Glickman

Next Meeting: Monday, October 22
7:15-8:45 PM

HOSTED BY: Sallie Volotzky
FACILITATED BY: Terri Schnitzer

FOR MORE INFO CONTACT Fran Alper
Phone: 314-993-4024 email: fran.alper@outlook.com

For information or to join Sisterhood, call the NHBZ office at 314-991-2100, ext. 3, or email: sisterhood@nhbz.org

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For information or to join Sisterhood, call the NHBZ office at 314-991-2100, ext. 3, or email: sisterhood@nhbz.org

The Sisterhood Scoop August 2018

Watch your mail for Sisterhood’s New Year Greetings Fundraiser

Proceeds will benefit NHBZ’s Passport to Israel Program and other Sisterhood projects. Help support your Sisterhood – please be generous!

Don’t forget!! Book Club meets Mon. Aug. 27, 7:15pm at Mansions on the Plaza, 8300 Delmar

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For information or to join Sisterhood, call the NHBZ office at 314-991-2100, ext. 3, or email: sisterhood@nhbz.org

The Sisterhood Scoop July 2018

NHBZ Sisterhood presents the 3rd Annual
Dine ‘n’ Style
Luncheon & Fashion Show

Sunday, August 19 – 11:30 a.m.

Falling for Fashion featuring:

Fall/Winter 2018 Fashions from Orli’s BoutiqueLuncheon, and, of course, Shopping!
For more information call Debbie Sher.

NEXT SISTERHOOD BOARD MEETING: Tuesday, July 24, 6:00 pm

Sisterhood’s NEW Book Club is Up and Running!

Critics agree: Sisterhood’s BOOK CLUB is a hit! The next book selection is: Eternal Life by award-winning novelist Dara Horn. Described as “a gripping, hilarious, and moving psychological novel, that celebrates the bonds between generations, the power of faith, the purpose of death, and the reasons for being alive.”

Discussion of Eternal Life will be Monday, August 27, 7:15-8:45pm at Mansions on the Plaza, 8300 Delmar hosted by Chana Lowenstein FOR MORE INFORMATION CONTACT:
Fran Alper at 314-993-4024 ~ fran.alper@outlook.com or Chana at 314-274-8718 ~ lclowenstein@gmail.com

Understanding Tisha B’Av Mourning What is Missing

Tisha B’Av is not about the destruction of a building, but about the exile of a people from their homeland, an estrangement of a nation from G‑d, and a separation of the spiritual from the physical. Each one of us has individual struggles and all of us await redemption from them, and the day when Tisha B’Av will no longer be a day of mourning, but a day of celebration. Why do the Jewish people continue to mourn and weep year after year? Mourning a death is very different than mourning something or someone that is missing. Even if a person is missing and presumed dead, the search for that person is never forgotten. Until there is closure, we cannot begin to move on. Tisha B’Av shows us that we are not mourning a death, we are mourning what is missing. The Temples were destroyed, but not forever. Until the Third Temple is rebuilt Tisha B’Av is the reminder of what we have temporarily lost. This is why one of the questions that will be asked by the Heavenly Court after a person dies is “Did you expect (wait for) the Redemption?” Some say that the word used by the sages is “to expect” (tzepita) or “wait for.” It doesn’t use “hope for” or “want,” but a word which describes a looking out for – with certainty. This is like a family with a missing child. Years may have gone by, but that family waits every single day for a phone call that their child has been found. Every day they grieve that the child is missing, yet simultaneously, every day they pray and hope. This is the crying and mourning we do on Tisha B’Av. For as hard as it is to live without our Temple and to be in exile, we wait every single day for it to be returned to us and pray that immediately we will be redeemed.

  • excerpted from Elana Mizrahi at www.chabad.org

The Sisterhood Scoop – July 2018

For information or to join Sisterhood, call the NHBZ office at 314-991-2100, ext. 3, or email: sisterhood@nhbz.org

NHBZ Sisterhood presents the 3rd Annual Dine ‘n’ Style Fashion Show & Luncheon

Falling for Fashion featuring Fall/Winter 2018 Fashions from Orli’s Boutique, Luncheon, and, of course, lots of Shopping!

Sunday, August 19, 2018

Shopping opens at 10:00 AM
Luncheon & Fashion Show promptly at Noon

In addition to Orli’s Boutique previewing women’s Fall fashions, visit our lower level “Retail Market” featuring:

  • Accessories and Gifts
  • Artisan Jewelry
  • Creative Design Jewelry
  • Fashionable Headscarves
  • Fused Frameworked Glass
  • Motek Israeli Jewelry
  • Sculpted Silverware, and more…
  • Israeli Items, and More

Nusach Hari B’nai Zion 650 North Price Road, Olivette

Registration $20 by August 12 call NHBZ – 314-991-2100, ext. 3, email FashionShow@nhbz.org




For more information Call Debbie Sher at 314-753-2261 or email: daps114@gmail.com For information or to join Sisterhood, call the NHBZ office at 314-991-2100, ext. 3, or email: sisterhood@nhbz.org

2018 Dine snd Style Flyer (Printable PDF)

 

 

Bingo

WHEN: Tuesday, March 12th

WHERE: NHBZ Auditorium, 650 North Price Road

TIME: 12:00 NOON

Delicious Lunch Everyone is Welcome! Also There will be Attendance Prizes!!
*** $10.00 Donation ***
Hope to see you! Men & Women of ALL Ages!
R.S.V.P. – Rachael: 314-395-6017

The Sisterhood Scoop May 2018

~ SAVE THE DATE ~

NHBZ Sisterhood presents the 3rd Annual
Dine ‘n’ Style
Luncheon & Fashion Show

Sunday, August 19
11:30 a.m.

Falling for Fashion featuring:

Fall/Winter 2018 Fashions from Orli’s BoutiqueLuncheon, and, of course, Shopping!

For more information call Debbie Sher

Sisterhood’s NEW Book Club is Up and Running!

The first selection is The Bread Givers by Jewish-American author Anzia Yezierska; the story of a young girl growing up in an immigrant Jewish household in the early 20th-century in the Lower East Side.

NHBZ Sisterhood Members are welcome to join the discussion on:

Monday, June 25, 7:15-8:45pm at the office of Peggy Umansky
12460 Olive Blvd. in Creve Coeur

For more information, directions, or to join the Book Club, contact: Fran Alper or Peggy.

St. Louis Kollel and NHBZ Sisterhood present

BALANCE FOR BALABUSTES

Strength Training ~ Bone Health ~ Flexibility for Females ~
with Dr. Jill Abrams

Wednesday, June 13
2:00-3:00pm at NHBZ

Refreshments will be served

For information or to join Sisterhood, call the NHBZ office at 314-991-2100, ext. 3, or email: sisterhood@nhbz.org

Sisterhood May 2018 – Printable Flier

Happy Hour – Torah Style

Please join us for a Special Women’s Shavuos Program
Tuesday, May 15
5:30 – 7:00 p.m.
at Nusach Hari B’nai Zion
650 North Price Road, Olivette

Rebbetzin Chani Smason will teach and inspire us:

  • Experience the Torah Scroll up close and personal
  • Learn the laws pertaining to women and the Torah
  • Where were we at Sinai?
  • And more . . .

5:30-6:00 – Complimentary Wine, Salad, and Mac & Cheese
6:00-7:00 – Program

RSVP by May 10 to jeff@nhbz.org or 314-991-2100

A PROJECT OF THE NHBZ SISTERHOOD AND THE NHBZ EDUCATION COMMITTEE

For information or to join Sisterhood, call the NHBZ office at 314-991-2100, ext. 3, or email: sisterhood@nhbz.org

Happy Hour Torah (PDF Format)